Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Do you think they're making a new feature cartoon?
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| Referring Link | http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=ungrateful little bastard&aq=0&oq=ungrateful l&aqi=g3g-m2 |
| Host Name | proxy-ce4.disney.com |
| Country | United States |
| Region | California |
| City | Burbank |
| ISP | Disney Worldwide Services Inc |
If so, I demand Fran Drescher do my voice.
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Friday, October 23, 2009
Adoptees with need for medical history
Reposting via Ann Wilmer, please share and repost
A reporter for a national publication is interested in writing a story about the problems adoptees encounter when they have a medical need to know. If you have personal experience of this situation, contact me, please.
Ann can be contacted at wilmer@dmv.com
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Thursday, October 22, 2009
Nurse your hangover with OBCforME
Mark your calendars!
Maine Celebrates One Year of Original Birth Certificates!
Come to Maine, celebrate with us! We have reached a milestone, our one year mark since original birth certificates were made available to adult adoptees here in Maine.
We will have lots of activities planned for this day - updates on the schedule of events will be posted soon!
| Date: | Saturday, January 2, 2010 |
| Time: | 9:00am - 9:00pm |
| Location: | The Maine Film Studios |
| Street: | 235 Presumpscot Street |
| City/Town: | Portland, ME |
Facebook RSVP: http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/event.php?eid=200446990464&ref=mf
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Saturday, October 17, 2009
Wow
Via AdultAdoptees
Check this out
The right to obtain a copy of one’s own birth certificate is routinely exercised by all citizens, unless you were adopted. Although parent-child relationships are supposed to be fundamental and constitutionally protected, children’s relationships with their parents, grandparents, siblings and other family members are routinely and permanently severed, first, by the inadvertent effect of the unrepresented birthparent(s)’ signature on surrender documents and, second, by a court’s judgment of adoption. The child has no guardian ad litem, attorney or other qualified person to represent and protect his or her interests and the adoption statute does not require it.
Due process in adoption? Hardly
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
The 15th Annual RegDay is November 14, 2009
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Tuesday, October 06, 2009
Next Long Island Adoptee Meetup - Thursday, October 15th
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Sunday, October 04, 2009
October is the douchiest of months
So serious here. If there's even one post on this blog you've ever liked, I'm begging you on this one, honestly.
I support an adult adoptee's right to their own original birth certificate, without restrictions, conditions or limitations.
It's been a while since I've posted about the draconian, degrading and downright douchy Pennsylvania system for getting your birth certificate, so older readers please indulge me while I dredge up some ingratitude from the archives.
From 2007:
Let's take a little peek at the rules here:
Q: What happens if a biological parent files a consent form after the Division of Vital Records processes a request?
A: If consent is received at a later date, the identifying information will not be sent to the adoptee. Therefore, an adoptee may wish to request periodically to determine if a consent form has been filed.
Sounds mundane, right? It's not, it's anything but.
If you're an adoptee registering with the State.... well, that in itself is wrong. Adoptees are not allowed to register. Only natural parents. Adoptees are invited to send $10 to the state to see if their parents have registered. They'll cash your check either way.
But remember - YOU are not registering. You are paying the state a fee to have a data processing clerk with access to YOUR personal information and the personal information on your parents pull up your birth certificate record in the computer, and see if there's a field flagged saying mom or dad even knows about this non publicized registry.
Even better, this means, if Vital Records gets your form on a Tuesday, cashes your check, peeks in their computer, sends you off a Sorry! letter, and then on Wednesday gets a registration form from your mom or dad - they will NOT notify you.
Q: How can a biological parent register identifying information?
A: A biological parent whose child was born in Pennsylvania may file a Biological Parent Registration Identification Form with the Department of Health. Please click here to download the form. Forms may also be requested by calling the Division of Vital Records at 1-877-PA-HEALTH
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Saturday, October 03, 2009
Required Reading: “Sorry, Mrs. Smith” — Looking Beyond The Story
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Sad addendum to Linda Joy's story
Commenter Ex-in-the-City noted on the previous post that unfortunately Linda Joy died of leukemia shortly after her second birthday.
Life reported on this in their their April 23, 1951 issue.
8 months later Life reported 'Boy takes Linda Joy's place'
I have no words.
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Thursday, October 01, 2009
Where's Linda Joy today?
Everyone who has read Anne Fessler's "The Girls Who Went Away" will remember the description of Life Magazine's 1951 cover story on the joys of adoption
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Saturday, September 26, 2009
I wonder if Paul ever searched
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Thursday, September 24, 2009
You can't make this stuff up
Really, now.
Glad to know there's one site on the web where you can get all your human and animal adoption needs covered
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